For 8 years, my parents made me leave the house every time my brother brought his fiance over; Mom said, “She comes from a good family, don’t embarrass us”; Dad added, “Just disappear for the weekend”;

I helped her select a beautiful tree and checked its graft.

On the nursery tag, I wrote my usual instructions:

Water deeply during the first summer. The graft is healthy. She’ll bloom.

Avery smiled.

“You look strangely familiar.”

I nearly introduced myself.

But years of following my mother’s instructions had made silence automatic.

I sold her the tree and watched her leave.

I had no idea what I’d just done.


By 2022, Mitch and Avery were preparing for their wedding.

My mother had already informed me that I wouldn’t be attending.

That Easter, another message arrived.

The Lockhearts are coming Saturday. Be gone before ten.

I opened my notebook.

Departure number 211.

I was twenty-six, had my own health insurance and no longer had a practical reason to stay.

Yet I still packed my bag and drove to Ruth’s.

That evening, I discovered I’d forgotten some medication.

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